I don’t want to ruin any good holiday cheer by complaining about my biggest Christmas pet peeve, but I can’t stop myself. Every year at this time I excitedly go to the mailbox to see brightly colored envelopes holding the promise of cute pictures, newsy letters, and general good cheer. I tear into them eager to see old friends and how their children have grown. It truly is one of my most favorite parts of Christmas. And then I glance down at the holiday greeting lovingly engraved by Snapfish or Walgreens or Bic and I gasp in horror at the most common and in my humble opinion egregious misspelling there is – the possessive family name! Example – Merry Christmas from the Fisher’s! There is no apostrophe – s. It’s just Fishers – plural. Unless an object, say the family dog, is going to follow the name (i.e. Merry Christmas from the Fisher’s dog!) then it’s is not a possessive noun. There’s seems to be more of this from families in the south. I don’t know what that means. But regardless of where the card originated, the trend of possessive families must stop! One year it was so bad I got a card that read (and I’m not making this up) ‘Season’s Greeting’s from the Fisher’s.’ That’s a whole lot of possessive going on in that one statement. So as we reach out to one another this season and drop a line to those we don’t see very often, let’s remember our dearly overused possessive nouns. Maybe that can be my new holiday greeting “Lose the apostrophe! Love, The Fishers.”

   Last week my daughter’s class had their Thanksgiving feast. But the surprisingly tasty food and ice old chocolate milk weren’t the highlight. It was what happened after in her classroom that will stay with me. The kids had put together a family history, complete with photos, esssays, and interviews with an older relative. Now, I knew about some of this because I had to help print pictures and arrange the interview over the phone with my grandmother (my daughter’s namesake). The project was touching and funny and well-written and totally unexpected. I knew everything in there, I’ve lived it right along with her, but to read her take on things, to see how she describes her life was such a treat. I can’t wait to share the interview with my grandmother when we travel to see her for Thanksgiving. She’s 90 and while still sharp as a tack, she’s not up for plane travel (especially into our airport!) Ask me sometime about the last time she flew into Atlanta and I missed picking her up at the gate because I had my face buried in a Cinnabon. So, we’ll travel to grandmother’s house this year. I want to show her the interview her great-granddaughter did, show her how proud our daughter was to show her off in the family history, and how she took great pleasure in preparing my grandmother’s favorite recipe for her class. You should have seen her serving it up to her friends, bragging the entire time. I could barely speak to the other parents because of the lump in my throat. I love that these two girls from two very different generations have had the chance to know each other, to be friends, and to share stories and recipes. Because they are my Lucys and my heart. And for that I’m thankful this year.

    I’m fed up with noise. Everywhere I go, there is too much of it. And I don’t mean normal conversations, the noise of daily life, etc. I mean piped in noise, turned on noise, stuff that isn’t necessary to your everyday getting things done life. Take yesterday for example. I had the day off to take care of an appointment. In the small waiting room, where you were supposed to give information to a receptionist mind you without having to yell preferably, CNN was blaring from a giant TV. The next waiting room (because there’s always more than one waiting room, isn’t there?) there was music coming through the speakers and some courtroom show on in a TV in the corner. The third waiting room (I’m not making this up) has soft lighting, snacks, soft talking nurses, and yes, a giant TV screaming at me. Look, I work in TV, I should be loving this, right? Wrong. I don’t need a TV on in every room I go into in every building I have business in everyday. The tire place I was at last week had FOX news blaring. The restaurant we ate at last night had a really loud music track right over our heads. Even the burger place up the street from the station plays loud music outside the entrance to the place (and don’t get me started on how they shout at you when you walk in!) so you can’t even sit outside and enjoy the evening without hearing ‘Final Countdown’ by Europe. What ever happened to silence? To good ol’ reflective, being alone in your head, thinking ’bout stuff, silence? Must we be assaulted with noise at every turn? It’s as if businesses are so worried about creating an “atmosphere” or keeping us entertained that they don’t think for a minute that we may want to enjoy a coversation with someone without shouting, maybe read a book or magazine in a waiting room, or just sit and enjoy a nice quiet evening having a meal outside. Can’t we as a society wait for a service or stand in line somewhere or buy something without being entertained? It reminds me of being a kid in my mom’s car on a long car trip across Texas, pre- i-Pod, pre- video games, and staring out the window at the passing landscape, just thinking. Maybe we’d play the spot the license plate game, maybe not. But I was expected to tolerate the lack of ’something to do’ and just be. “Look at a tree”, my mom would say. “Find shapes in the clouds or stick your head out the window and feel the wind in your hair.” Excellent advice. Silence isn’t bad. Not knowing everything that’s going on the second it’s going on isn’t bad either. I go to these places to do business and spend money. You’re already in my wallet. Stay out of my head.

   CBS Atlanta is proud to be sponsoring an upcoming event that highlights the importance of early detection in fighting breast cancer. In honor of breast cancer awareness month in October, we are partnering with Gwinnett Medical Center to provide low cost mammograms. GMC has what it calls a ‘Care-A-Van’ – a mobile mammography unit that travels to clinics, schools, libraries, and churches to offer the service to women who can’t make it to the mammography clinic. You step inside the van, get a mammogram, and you’re on your way in 30 minutes.

   We are co-hosting two ‘Care-A-Van’ events. The first is October 13th at Gwinnett Center. The mobile mammogram costs 150 dollars and GMC accepts most major insurance plans. You must make an appointment though, and to do that, you need to meet these requirements: You must be 35 or older; have no history of breast cancer, breast surgery in the last two years, or breast implants; and you must have a mammogram order from a Georgia licensed physician. If you meet these requirements, call 678-442-5000 to schedule your mammogram. This information is also on our website www.cbsatlanta.com – click on breast cancer under the health tab.

  We survived the camping trip! And between you and me, it was pretty fun. The campground was packed and it wasn’t quite as secluded as we would have liked, but it was nice. Our Saturday started early as we packed up two cars with everything three people and two dogs would need for two and a half days. Then we drove just 45  minutes north of town and were directed to our campiste by the Etowah River. It was shady and grassy (in spots) and not too far from the bathrooms, so we set up camp. The dogs proceeded to turn the campsite into their own personal bathroom, roll in the dirt, eat bugs, and generally enjoy themselves like they are not able to while padding around our home in Alpharetta. It actually became humorous as the 30 foot leads we had them on got tangled up until both of them were an inch away from the tree we’d tied them to. We spent a lot of time untangling. We also spent a lot of time in the water. And despite a dead chicken (not sure how that got there) and people panning for gold (not sure how they got there either) we pretty much had a little stretch of water to ourselves. We cooked all our meals outside and is it just me or does everything taste better when you’re eating outdoors? The bugs were minimal, except when we had on this super powered kerosene lantern my husband picked up that I think is used by NASA to bring in the shuttle. Every flying insect within a 30 mile radius had to visit to see what the heck it was. We played games, I read, my husband fished, and our daughter ate more s’mores than her tummy could hold. Then, she wanted s’more. (sorry, I couldn’t resist) Sure we didn’t sleep great. The tent was hot and dirty after the dogs plopped down in there for the night. The showers served a triple purpose of repulsing us, cleaning us, and acting as dishwasher since I, being environmentally minded, didn’t want to bring any paper products and create more waste. But by Monday morning when we were shoving everything back into our cars, we were dirty, but we were happy, closer as a family, and I found myself smiling on the drive home (albeit with my head out the window because the dogs stunk) thinking my husband was right – it is a great family tradition. One we will continue. Maybe in a cabin next time. Or a Hilton.

   This weekend the Fishers are going camping! Big deal, you say? Well, then you don’t know the Fishers. My husband has got this down. A childhood spent ‘roughing it’ with his brother, sister and parents has prepared him. Lucy and I are another story. We are not what you would call ‘outdoor gals.’ Now, I love a beautiful day on our deck, reading, listening to the wind rustling the leaves, a day spent on the beach, or a nice walk through the park with the dogs – but sleeping outside, on the ground, is not really my thing. Like my good friend Kim says, “I’m outdoorsy in that I like to drink on patios!” But we’re going to try this as a family and honestly, I’m looking forward to it. We’ve got enough camping gear to live in the Appalachians for years, we’re only going about 30 minutes  north of where we live, and I’m sure between us we’ll have three cell phones and an I-Pod touch. So, I’m thinking we’ll survive. My husband says his best memories of childhood are camping with his family. Fishing, exploring the woods, making a fire and burning your s’mores. To see him so excited has gotten us girls in the camping mood. Our daughter’s concerns about bees and snakes evaporated when she and Daddy took the flint into the backyard to make sure it worked and proceeded to burn up piles of leaves.  I think this will be great for her to get away from the TV and video games and commune with nature.  I think it will be great for me to enjoy the calming affect of time spent in the crisp outdoors. As for my husband, he’s getting to pass on a family tradition to his family. I’ll gladly sleep on the ground for that.

   My daughter just called to breathlessly tell me she got the teacher she wanted and that her two best friends in the whole world (keep in mind these names change daily) are in her class and that she’s so excited to start school Monday and (take breath) that she and Daddy are getting barbeque to celebrate.  I have a huge smile on my face while listening to this because for weeks she has been explaining to me the importance of having this particular teacher and these particular friends with her as she tackles her last year of elementary school. I’m thrilled for her I say, and then I need to have her pass the phone to Daddy because I’m getting choked up with the thought that our little girl is not so little and that soon, too soon, she’ll be in middle school and high school and then, gone. 

  Despite being about the same height as one grandmother and wearing contacts and deoderant, she’s still my baby sometimes. You know that great age where little girls are not yet young women and they will still allow you to hold them in your lap, to snuggle, to want to be picked up ‘like a baby?’  She’s still there and I’m holding onto it with everything I have.  Now don’t get me wrong, I look forward to knowing her as a young adult and watching as she matures and becomes her own woman. But I will miss that little girl so much.

   There’s a picture by our bed of her when she first came home from the hospital, maybe she’s two days old, and she’s staring right at the camera with the cutest frown in her brow, pouty lips and the biggest, bluest eyes you’ve ever seen.  I stare at this when I’m having trouble sleeping. I remember what she smelled like and sounded like and how she fit in your hands and I can’t believe that she and the girl asleep in her room are one in the same. And that the tiny baby who was so stubborn she came two weeks late became the toddler who traveled cross country twice so mommy could take new jobs became the little girl who was so bright we sent her to school early became this big girl.

    I want to tell her I’m proud of her, that she’s the love of our lives, and may this final year of elementary school be that wonderful combination of the innocence of being my little girl and the anticipation of being your own.

    In this week’s health alert we discovered a fairly new treatment for young, active people who develop arthritis in their hips. At one time, a painful, arthritic hip meant a total hip replacement and a lot of time recuperating. With hip resurfacing, doctors shave away some bone and replace the joint. The pain associated with osteo-arthritis (the kind of arthritis we’re talking about) is caused by the bones rubbing together. The new joint, made of steel, is nice and smooth and no more pain. The best part for the man we featured in our story was that he was back to work in a couple of months. And he’s a firefighter so he’s active and on his feet a lot. He said he feels great since the surgery and that it feels so good to be free from that hip pain. Doctors say this type of repair is more common in young, active people who develop arthritis. Keep in mind though, the resurfacing work won’t last forever, so maybe in 20 or 30 years, you may need a new hip.

John Wolfram, 1969

  This week I put together two stories I found fascinating. My photographer, A.J. Willen, interviewed the man who was the first to welcome home the astronauts of Apollo 11 when their space capsule splashed into the Pacific Ocean on July 24, 1969.  At the time, John Wolfram was a 20 year old Navy Seal, who, by sheer luck and timing, was the seaman who was sent first into the water that afternoon to make sure the astronauts were alright and to secure the capsule.  He told a great story about how many people had trained for the sea rescue, there were 9000 men on nine ships and over 50 different aircraft circling the Pacific a few hundred miles off the coast of Hawaii.  The team that was closest would get the call and John happened to be the one.  If you’ve seen pictures from that day, you noticed the giant flower decals on John’s wetsuit. He said he was a prankster back then and after NASA reprimanded him and some other seaman for using the decals on the Apollo 10 mission, he knew they had to make a comeback. And they did. All over his wetsuit. Another interesting thing he told us was that after the astronauts had been safely moved from the capsule to a helicopter, that was on its way to the U.S.S. Hornet, he and the two other Navy frogmen with him played ‘king of the mountain’ on the capsule while it was bobbing in the ocean.  Like I said, it was a fascinating interview. He also shared with us some of his memoribilia from that day, including some gold foil John took from the hull of the capsule and shoved down his wetsuit. He has a new book coming out that details all these great stories called ‘Splashdown.’ You can see his interview with us Sunday and Monday nights, July 19th and 20th, and 11:00.

   I’m back working on health alerts and this one is timely because it concerns a shoe most of us wear during the summer – the flip-flop. They’re cheap and comfortable but are they damaging your body?  We spoke with Dr. Perry Julien at the Atlanta Foot and Ankle Center and he says about 15 percent of the injuries he sees during the summer are from people wearing flip-flops.  So how do you get injured? Dr. Julien says the biggies are heel, arch, shin, and achilles pain. Flip-flops have absolutely no arch with no elevation at the heel and worn too often, doctors say they can cause pain in your lower legs and in your feet. Now, the key thing to remember is ‘everything in moderation.’ Dr. Julien isn’t suggesting you can’t wear flip-flops. Just don’t wear them all the time. To the pool, beach, or maybe to run a quick errand, is okay.  The doctor says you don’t want to invest in a good summer sandal that is sturdy, has an arch, and a slightly elevated heel. I’ve even seem some shoes that are technically ‘flip-flops’ that meet these criteria and I’m sure you will too if you shop around.  If you do wear flip-flops and find yourself in pain, see the doctor, and switch shoes.  You don’t want to spend the summer ‘off your feet.’